How to loose a friend without trying to

I had a really REALLY good friend in maple story and did lots of things with them
Here is how they became one of my worst enmeys, and the story on how we meet.
One day I was training at wild boars (T_T) and a level 21 Archer came up to me with under 10 HP an almost leveled. He was asking if I could escort him out of the boar map, and I said yes, but on the way out he was hit be a boar that just spawned. As he disapered I keept on training, when he came back again, only to die in three hits. I was wondering, “wow he was at 97% why is he dying. He came back one more time and managed to jump up on a rope. I did also and asked him why he came back. He said, I want to be friends with a pro (awww). I thought that this was so cool that he thought a warrior with a Scimitar was a pro, so Ibuddy listed him. But then I had some RL issues with my gf and had to stop playing maple for a while. When I came back he had leveled to 33 just like me and we started to train together all the time, leveling within minutes of eachother. Then we started to do thePQ. I was always leader because noone would join him otherwise. We leveled to 40 in the same PQ about a month later, and I got us in with a really good party (Level 50 assassin, 50 cleric, 49 Spearman, 47 Bandit, and us two) I was again leader, nad we got to stage 8 and I had to go. This is where the problems started. I had just leveled to 41, and he was 97%. If we finished the stage he would level but I had to go to somthing really important. They rushed and missed to a party channel surfing and lost the track they had. Then he decided to train since the party fell apart, and died 2 times. He was in the high 70’s% and gave up. As I signed in I tracked him and saw he was on stage 8 in the PQ. I got 5 guild members, and made a party. When I got back to the channel I saw him standing outside with no party, because he had rushed, but his party signed off. Seeing me he did F@ but I had clicked the sign and went in. Being sad that I had abandoned him he went to train and lost even more EXP. I asked him if he wanted into the PQ but did F$ and signed off. The next day I offered to train him since I was level 42, and he said yes. He went AFK for 2 minutes, I went a little off the screen and I came back to a dead friend. He came out of being AFK to not seeing me, thinking I had killed him. He quit the guild, and signed off. The next afternoon I noticed he was on but not on my buddy list. I saw him training and offered to help. He defamed me and logged off. He hasn’t been on since. Was this all my fault??????

15 thoughts on “How to loose a friend without trying to”

  1. no i dont think its ur fault. u had to g to something important. and maple is just a game, not a system to rip up freindships.

  2. Wow. He did die a lot. O_o

    But it wasn’t your fault, if he was immature enough to think that you would intentionally keep killing him and then not want to talk to you, then he’s just being stupid. No offense. >__>;

  3. Whoa, he died like a adhuihaguiwrhguiwe g atimes. Lolz. Does he know how to use hotkeys?

  4. If he thinks that, you; his friend would kill him, than don’t befriend him again, and just go your seperate ways. If he thinks that you purposely killed him just for the 4 second joy, than he’s not your real friend.

  5. I never die I’m too pro XD I died once on my warrior and it was on purpose at liek level5 to get to amerhest

  6. Mmm. This seems like a whole boatful of misunderstandings. Perhaps if he read this, he would understand. Heck, if you ever got the opportunity, explain this situation to him. It is truly sad when misunderstandings lead to fallouts.

  7. wow your friend patheticly dies a lot. what? you said he died 3 times or 2 going to wild boars. and another 2 or 3 after the PQ? what who knows how many times he died the other times, this whole thing is that noob’s fault who dies too much

  8. I agree with most the other people who replied to this.

    That guy SERIOUSLY needs to learn some survival skills. o_O

  9. Ok, send an email or something.

    Cmon, PQs are really stressfull, at ALL TIMES. you guys prolly know that.

    =P

    And cmon, you’ve been friends for so long, that cant be the end of it!

    , you know what?
    Get something for his equip for lvl 50, or something, and give it to him!
    Say its a “im sorry lets try again” gift!

    ^^’

  10. friendship is a give and take thing, your “friend” only cared about himself, not worth to be a friend at all.
    I mean, it is kind of rude to kick your party member after a long time because of your friend. You are at no fault. your “friend” should try to be more understanding, if not he is just taking advantage of you.

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