First off, I would like to thank everyone who came to my wedding. Second, I want to say that I am extremely sorry for the way things turned out. I’m sorry for my temper during the events as well. For anyone who was there and confused, this is what happened.

I started the invitations and planning about 2.5 hours before we planned the wedding. I sent out invites to buddies, guild members and (very importantly) some people from MMOTales. Quite a few people showed up during the span of 1.5 hours of waiting outside the chapel in Amoria. Many people had to leave, sadly, since we also spent some time waiting for people as well.
I am just not good at 10 people chatting me at once. I can’t handle more than 3 people talking to me at once. So as soon as the crowd grew, I became irritated and inattentive. As soon as we had the full crowd drawn, I realized that there was still the parents thing we had to do. This made us force other people to wait even longer. While doing this I was lagging badly and in a mad rush. While in the rush and being extremely anxious, people kept whispering, chatting and talking to me asking me what happened (though I said it 6 times in guild, buddy, all chat and told my buddies and guild members to tell people). This made me more frustrated. Then people actually followed me to “Mom and Dad” which made me lag further and become even more irritable (I asked them all to please wait in Amoria). I know I had no right to lose my patience with my guests but I don’t handle pressure well. I was trying to make it quick and enjoyable for everyone but by doing that I would need to ignore chit-chat and such.

I lagged out and disconnected CONSTANTLY. About the fourth time, I finally connected and realized it was this guy and this girl TRYING TO MAKE ME D/C. When I was able to connect and was rushing to Amoria, they started poking fun at my lag so I swore at them. The guy then became a huge ass and harrassed me and my friend while I was still trying to get proofs and such and start my wedding. Then he spammed me in whisper, calling me a “wh0r3”. He then spammed me with chat invites. He thought this was funny but by this time, my guests had waited a full 1.5 hours for my wedding to start. His name is KillShadow05 and I hope he dies.

So when I finally get to my wedding, it’s much fun. I see many people who I thought wouldn’t show up and a lot of people I’m glad stuck around. I lagged during the ceremony so I missed a lot of what was going on in the seats but I could tell that Grimno was getting a lot of attention and it seemed funny. I also remember telling people to bother Ganzicus for not showing up. Please bother Ganzicus for not showing up.

Then when it got to the cake part, my computer just plain refused to connect. I’m not sure if someone was spamming or something but my computer completely crashed and died.
When I finally made it back on, I was at the end map with 2 people: LazyDame and B1ackCleric1 (thanks for cheering me up a little guys). At the time my groom told me that he had also disconnected. I apologized several times in buddy and guild but with no real reply (even Unkissed was too tired to talk and he was upset as well) so I’m posting this as an explaination and an apology. Guys, I’m really sorry. I really am. I feel horrible about wasting so much time and being a huge ass. I’m just glad I got to see all these MMOT people at the wedding. For me, this is probably the site related to MMOs or Maple that I go to the most and it meant a lot to see so many of you at my wedding.

Fortunately or unfortunately, the wedding didn’t go through.
Good points:
I didn’t COMPLETELY waste 30 bucks because we can have it over again.
I can try to get the people who were unable to show up if people don’t toss their invitations (but I guess I can buy more).
It will go smoother and faster I swear.
Bad points:
Waste of time
I’m not sure what happened to any gifts I might have gotten
People might have tossed their wedding invites
I wasted people’s time and I’m really upset and sorry

Anyways, if anyone can make it again or just send me screenies, I’d love them forever and ever.
Again, I am so sorry.

By the way the last screenie is for my “maid of honor” who didn’t show up.

Kia was excused.