Yup Ive been sick the past three months, love sick to be precise. <3
Ive also been doing some ”research” lately on Maple relationships, results that Ill disclose in here.
Before I do that though, I just have to say a few things, the Diary, for one, is going to end fairly soon, when the ”timer” runs out the Diaryll end.
Ill probably write an epilogue though, even if its just to tie some loose ends or stuff like that.
It doesnt mean that Ill stop writing though, far away from me that idea.
Ill be writing something as ”white” as the Diary is ”black”.
Unless you know me, the title of my next story wont tell you much.
Fairy Tale, story of love, adoration, obsession.
Hey I’m really bad at these kind of stories so I got to practice… >_>
Lets start now shall we?
Note that this is something more for me than anything but I thought Id share it and maybe help some people out.
Ill be classifying ”Maple couples” in three categories.
Type 1: They want to get married for superficial reasons, for the Ring, APQ or something like that.
Type 2: They want to get married for the ”right” reasons.
Type 3: They want a little of both.
Ill be talking a little about pairings and my opinion on them.
Type 1xType 1: A great pairing since they both pretty much want the same thing, there probably wont be many conflicts and very low chances of divorce. You might not even see the other person much since youll be too busy doing your own stuff. This pairing doesnt bother each other much and its fairly stable in the sense that nothing will change much.
Type 1xType 2: This is a unilateral relationship, it can cause a lot of pain to the Type 2 person since that person will probably be ”in love” with the Type 1 person for this kind of relationship to take place (a good example would be my relationship with Gina). The Type 2 person is a vulnerable and easy target for the Type 1 person to take advantage of.
Type 1xType 3: This is a fairly decent matching, the Type 3 person wants a little of what the Type 1 person wants, which minimises the chances of problems between them and therefore the chances of divorces arent too high. Though the Type 3 person lacks the ”love” she wants from her partner, she might go around looking for someone that would give it to her and that might raise the chances of a divorce happening.
Type 2xType 1: Same as Type 1xType 2.
Type 2xType 2: One word: Perfect. Now you two just have to meet up and marry in real life lol.
Type 2xType 3: You both love each other and the Type 3 person can APQ for her more superficial side. Chances of divorce are pretty low and you two should be happy together.
Type 3xType 3: You two will be great together, youre likely to want and receive the same things from your partner. Low divorce chance and youll be quite happy with your partner.
Keep in mind that this is more for myself so I dont mind too much if you think ”negatively” of this.
I think a 1-squared might have a high chance of divorce if they don’t really like eachother.
Well considering they’re not in it to have the other person ”like” them it doesn’t really matter,if they do care then they’d be Type 3.
No, Cheeze is right. My first marriage was a type 1 x type 1 and I now hate that SOB.
And he hates me, I believe, otherwise he wouldn’t send his freaking cousins to say crappy things to me.
We were both in it for the ring, the PQ, the wedding gifts (I got the better gifts anyways), but it’s hard being tied to someone you loathe.
My marriage now (2nd marriage) turned from type 3 (my hubby) x type 1 (me) to type 3 (I’ll assume this is how it still is with him) x type 2 (I absolutely adore him, which is sad but hey I’m happy)
lol nice of ya to break it down
Hmph.
*packs cynical thoughts up and carries basket away*
And he hates me, I believe, otherwise he wouldn’t send his freaking cousins to say crappy things to me.
We were both in it for the ring, the PQ, the wedding gifts (I got the better gifts anyways), but it’s hard being tied to someone you loathe.
My marriage now (2nd marriage) turned from type 3 (my hubby) x type 1 (me) to type 3 (I’ll assume this is how it still is with him) x type 2 (I absolutely adore him, which is sad but hey I’m happy)
lol nice of ya to break it down “
I see,well I did say this was more of a personal opinion and thus there is room for change.
And, I went through the Type 1xType 2 thing and I got to say, it hurted lol so I don’t think that one has any mistakes.
As of now, I have a Type 3xType 2 relationship, well, I’m just crazy about her now. XD
If you could change from Type 1 to Type 2 then maybe with time she could change to Type 2, who knows, I’ll be hoping.
*packs cynical thoughts up and carries basket away*”
agreed
Trying to make logics out of maple marriage is ludicrous.
NO MASSACHEEZE, NOT THE BAND.